The Shame of Failure with Rob Allan | The Shame Game Season 1 Episode 9

28-08-2023 • 46 mins

In this episode we explore the profound impact of failure on personal and business aspects of life. Our guest, Rob Allan, shares his story of navigating the aftermath of his successful business' downfall during the global financial crisis of 2008. As he grapples with feelings of shame and self-worth, Rob embarks on a transformative journey to redefine his values and shed the cycle of external validation. Discover how Rob's experience led him to found 'Approval Removal' and gain insights into his upcoming book. Join the conversation on embracing vulnerability, overcoming shame, and finding self-love.

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Timestamps:

00:00 - Intro

02:41 - Rob’s childhood and back story

09:19 - Rising the ladder of success in business

11:49 - The perfect storm: when it all comes crashing down

15:13 - Business struggles lead to breakdown of marriage?

16:19 - What does failure feel like?

19:45 - How to pull oneself out of a depression

21:56 - Rob’s lowest moment

24:53 - Approval Removal: turning your greatest challenge into your greatest gift

29:11 - Why do we seek external validation?

33:12 - Deep programming