Heidi Clements, a sober, thrift shop obsessed dog lover currently living in California, joins Chrissie to unpick the lies we tell ourselves, explain why she's not the only one who's never been fully herself in a romantic relationship and admits to eating cake out of her rubbish bin and secretly praying to her vagina to die on a regular basis.

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