Shipwreck Over Safety

Dallas Verity & Blair Roberts

Welcome to the Shipwreck Over Safety Podcast. Where we'd rather risk the dangers of a shipwreck than settle for the safety of shore. Conversations on faith, doubt and justice. read less
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Episodes

I Am Multitudes w/ Leo Wolters Tejera
03-03-2022
I Am Multitudes w/ Leo Wolters Tejera
If church is supposed to be a community, what do we do when that community doesn't want us?It's a question faced by LGBTQ2S+ christians around the world, and one that should NOT need to be asked. If church is supposed to be a community, what do we do when that community doesn't want us? If the church is a body, then the fear of including gender-diverse christians in their communities is akin to cutting off their own arm. The church is missing out on relationships with people who are beautifully and wonderfully made.Dallas had the opportunity to interview Leo Wolters Tejera about the work they do through Conversations and on what it's like being to love God while being Non-Binary and Trans in an evangelical world that didn't want them back. There is much beauty to be heard in this conversation, and we hope you'll grow and learn from hearing from Leo as much as we did.—You can find Leo on Facebook, Instagram, Discord, and Youtube. Be sure to listen to the Conversations Podcast to hear some excellent discussions with Leo and guests.Leo is founder and facilitator of Conversations: Spiritually Minded Conversation About Life. Check out their website and if you want to join a safe space to have those types of conversations, check out their Facebook group.If you want to support Leo, check out their Patreon page.--Hang with us throughout the week on TikTok, Facebook, Instagram,  and Twitter. Please subscribe/rate our podcast on iTunes or wherever you listen. Thanks as always to Northcote for letting us use their incredible music. Please support by buying their music. The song featured in this episode is called  War Is Over. You can watch the music video here. Thanks to Bryan Neufeld for creating our logo. Give him a shout for all your design/tattoo needs.
The Cost Of Being A Non-Affirming Church: Part 2 (w/ Pastor Carla Blakley, Jay, Jasper and Nancy Shadlock)
07-04-2021
The Cost Of Being A Non-Affirming Church: Part 2 (w/ Pastor Carla Blakley, Jay, Jasper and Nancy Shadlock)
We wanted to offer some hope in the midst of all the harm that's been done to the LGBTQ2S+ community by the church. Things don't have to be this way and there is light at the tunnel. If you're at the end of your proverbial rope, our guests today can maybe offer a glimpse into a hopeful future. A future where churches don't reject LGBTQ2S+ community and everyone belongs and is fully affirmed and supported. If Christians continue to reject queer people, they are rejecting the image of God. It's not the queer community that's missing out on the church. It's the church that's missing out on the queer community.We invited Pastor Carla Blakley, her son Jay, and friend Jasper on to talk about how the church should respond, and Jay and Jasper generously share their thoughts on what the church is missing out on by rejecting them. Life Coach Nancy Shadlock helps us close out the episode with a discussion around the impact of non-affirming theology in Christian education, and she shares more details about her work and how to support individuals during their coming out process. We invited Pastor Carla Blakley, her son Jay, and friend Jasper on to talk about how the church should respond, and Jay and Jasper generously share their thoughts on what the church is missing out on by rejecting them. Life Coach Nancy Shadlock helps us close out the episode with a discussion around the impact of non-affirming theology in Christian education, and she shares more details about her work and how to support individuals during their coming out process. â€”You can learn more about Nancy Shadlock and her work here. Nancy is a Life Coach and Coming Out Guide. Click the link to hear her podcast, The Coming Out Chronicles. Her website includes some great free resources, so please go and support her work. Carla mentioned Camp Fyrefly, an educational, social, artistic and personal learning retreat for gender and sexually diverse youth (Two spirit, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer) and allied youth. You can make a donation to support Camp Fyrefly here.Here's a news article about the situation in Regina that's referenced:'Completely and terribly damaging: Faith community calls Regina pastor's message homophobic'You can listen to episode 1 of this series here, where we go into deeper detail on the Pastor's harmful message and also hear from Cassie about how her family was removed from leadership once she came out and her family supported her.Find out if a church is affirming or non-affirming at Church Clarity. If you don't see your church listed, submit it for review. Clarity is important so people can be safe and know what they are getting into.BooksTorn by Justin LeeGenerous Spaciousness by Wendy VanderWal-GritterTransforming by Austen HartkeGod and the Gay Christian by Matthew VinesChanging Our Mind by David GusheeSupport OrganizationsGenerous SpaceThe Reformation ProjectQ Christian Fellowship--Hang with us throughout the week on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter. Please subscribe/rate our podcast on iTunes or wherever you listen. Thanks as always to Northcote for letting us use their incredible music. Please support by buying their music.Thanks to Bryan Neufeld for creating our logo. Give him a shout for all your design needs.