Her Best Life

This week we are removing all shame and embarrassment and talking about specific things we accepted from men in our past. We feel like burying these stories from when we didn’t value ourselves, but some are so funny and downright appalling that we thought why not share! Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, we talk about our embarrassing ego driven choices over the years, vs the authentic ones. It’s time to make choices that reflect who you truly are, not who your ego wants you to be. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We chat about the beauty in your rebirth, how to push past fear and how to navigate the stages you might experience. In preparation for our girls trip to India we discuss what the highlights and lowlights of traveling together are. In true besties style we go off track and cover how to have shower sex and Jackie’s co-dependent needs are uncovered! Happy New Year Besties! Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What do we like to talk to our partners about… when we each get one! It turns out we are quite different after all! Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Well we’ve found a book that charts your astrological timing – and our partners of destiny are on the way next year, supposedly! So what are we going to have to change or eliminate from our single gal life? Let’s go through the bad habits we have that might not work for a new partner. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We reflect on relationships with narcissists and how debilitating and traumatic it can be. The cycle of love bombing, devaluation, gaslighting and then being discarded. Relationships with narcissists are full of danger and we cover off what you need to be aware of so you don’t end up in a relationship with a narcissist or what to do if you are in one. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sorry poddy listeners because this week we’re all over the place but so much to discuss! We start with the key tip to get through small talk this silly season, we unpack how women perform in negotiations, why women value themselves so low, we face the reality of our travels during our trip to India, Jackie’s poses to Gemma how it would easier to be a couple, we warn about Mercury being retrograde and Jackie’s elf on the shelf flying across Sydney. Just our standard besties chat! Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We get a bit deep and spiritual in this episode after getting many messages from people wanting to know more detail on what exactly we do as our meditation and manifestation practice. We talk about the books that have helped us in this space and what we’ve learnt! Jackie also gets a Geography lesson and Gemma puts down the rules for the upcoming girls trip. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

After our episode with sex therapist Chantelle Otton last week, we felt like we wanted to talk about sex more. We touch on how sometimes as women we struggle with talking about our sexual desires and interactions. We also get honest about porn, our learnings with sex and our own sexual fantasies. This episode is very explicit so for 18+ we advise! Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We find out whether Gemma had the guts to send a message asking for clarity to the guy she was sitting in ambiguity with! We’re also joined by Sexologist Chantelle Otten to answer some of our questions on sex and orgasms, plus we chat to Bumble’s Lucille McCart to get all the insights on what works on dating profiles and all things Bumble. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week our therapist Dr Corry joins us to talk about some key things we struggle with. We cover off a fear of not being picked in a romantic sense, our relationship with rejection, how to not waste time with situationships and how to not sit in ambiguity with romantic relationships. As Gemma gets an unexpected therapy session, we are reminded of the importance of picking your future self! Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We discuss Jackie’s recent admission of her alcohol and prescription medication addiction and how it all came to a head. In true besties style it’s incredibly raw but you can also expect tears and laughter. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We’ve had so many amazing questions in our DM’s from our podcast listeners that we decided it was time to start answering some! From “How do I get my confidence back after a toxic relationship?” to “How often do you tan?” We try to tackle an array of queries! Including Jackie’s own queries about a recent date… Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We talk more about sex after long term relationships, plus we deep dive on attachment styles and which ones we are and how it impacts you in relationships. And it wouldn’t be a normal episode unless we discovered Jackie has more toilet issues! Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We are back together after a few weeks away and tackling the new moon, manifestations and weeing in the car! Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week we solve whether Gemma is chatting to a red flag guy, we reveal some pashing action on the beach, we talk career learnings, negotiation and in typical besties style other random stuff! Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode we get real about how hard it can be to have an ex on your mind and why do we always hold on to the emotionally unavailable man?! Plus we explore the reality of fear in our lives. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, we talk to one of our favourite people… the amazing Gwyneth Paltrow joins us! Before that, we unexpectedly address the topic of vibrators, with an admission from Jackie leaving Gemma speechless. And I know we have this in the podcast description, but I think it might be worth adding this to the episode descriptions too, if you agree? Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Setting up our quest for living our best lives! This episode we discuss hitting our low points, sex again after divorce, what we turned to after a break up and how our first dates went after being single again. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Best friends Jackie Henderson and Gemma O'Neill are on the quest to live their best lives. Listen if you want to live yours too, or want to laugh at their attempts! Her Best Life is true girl chat. Raw, vulnerable, unfiltered conversations on topics such as sex, relationships, healing, careers and it might include some amateur astrology. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.