Rewired for Success

Today we have an insightful episode ahead. Joining us is Sally Spicer, an award-winning journalist, and the current Communications Director at FW. She recounts the professional hurdles she's tackled and the larger crisis journalism faces in keeping democracy in check. She gets real on her own inner battles, like making sure her personal values align with her professional life! Above all, we're digging deep into extending kindness—with Sally offering pearls of wisdom on being your own best friend and the beautiful ripple effects of compassion.Join us as we chat about: - The importance of your personal values aligning with your workplace (even if that means quitting a high profile job!) - The effects of societal conditioning on individual autonomy- Our external locus of control and personal decision-makingConnect with Sally:Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sallyspicer4/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sallyspiciest/And be sure to follow FW: https://futurewomen.com/https://www.instagram.com/futurewomen/https://www.linkedin.com/company/future-women/******************************************If you loved this episode, please give it a 5 star review so we can help to connect with more like-minded women across the globe. And, leave some words too! If you do, you may be featured as the review of the month on an upcoming episode.******************************************Remember to join our growing network of like-minded women ready to support each other on their journey to authenticity: https://www.facebook.com/groups/goywitheloiseLearn more about your host, Eloise Tomkins, at www.eloisetomkins.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Viv Conway has goals! Huge goals. And she's not going to let small minded people tell her she can't do it. In fact, she's already created Girls Get Off, now a seven figure brand that aimed to normalize and open discussions around sexual pleasure. Join us as we chat about how Viv learnt to give zero fucks about what others thought about her business idea, and how she transformed uncertainty around her business into possibility!******************************************Connect with Viv and Girls Get Off:Website: https://girlsgetoff.com.au/Instagram, Girls Get Off: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgetoff/Instagram, Viv Conway: https://www.instagram.com/vivconway_/******************************************If you loved this episode, please give it a 5 star review so we can help to connect with more like-minded women across the globe. And, leave some words too! If you do, you may be featured as the review of the month on an upcoming episode.******************************************If you want to chat about coaching, book a chat with me here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/coaching-calendarOr you can take the free quiz to see if you are emotionally ready for seven figures in your business: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quiz Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever felt guilty charging your clients a cancellation fee? Or gone above and beyond for a client because you've felt intimidated by them and you really wanted them to like you? I get it! We can care so much about what other people think, and this episode addresses all of that and more! ******************************************If you loved this episode, please give it a 5 star review so we can help to connect with more like-minded women across the globe. And, leave some words too! If you do, you may be featured as the review of the month on an upcoming episode.******************************************If you're in Melbourne - come along to the in person Money Mindset Workshop. Use the code PODCAST to get a cheeky discount.... https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/master-your-money-mindset-tickets-907360428467?aff=oddtdtcreatorMeanwhile, if you'd like to book in a 15 min chat about your money blocks, book a call here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/coaching-calendarAnd complete the free quiz to identify your subconscious money blocks: https://eloisetomkins.com/quiz Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you ever wonder WHY money can have such a hold over our emotions? In this episode, I take you behind the scenes of the psychology of money and how it is the driver for our survival. And, I explore the reason why being able to separate our emotions from money helps us to make more of it! ******************************************If you loved this episode, please give it a 5 star review so we can help to connect with more like-minded women across the globe. And, leave some words too! If you do, you may be featured as the review of the month on an upcoming episode.******************************************If you're in Melbourne - come along to the in person Money Mindset Workshop. Use the code PODCAST to get a cheeky discount.... https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/master-your-money-mindset-tickets-907360428467?aff=oddtdtcreatorMeanwhile, if you'd like to book in a 15 min chat about your money blocks, book a call here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/coaching-calendarAnd complete the free quiz to identify your subconscious money blocks: https://eloisetomkins.com/quiz Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What does it feel like when your first ever $30k lands in your bank account? And, how can we be sure that it'll happen again? We chat to Kirsty Ryan, founder of Matilda Marketing, about what it was like to jump off the corporate treadmill and start freelance marketing... tripling her corporate salary in less than 12 months! We dive into how our idea of success changes as we evolve, and how money doesn't equal feeling worthy or good enough. Yep, we go there. Join us for a vulnerable and insightful conversation into how what we think success should feel like doesn't actually match our reality. Connect with Kirsty here: https://www.matildamarketing.com/https://www.instagram.com/himynameiskirsty/******************************************If you loved this episode, please give it a 5 star review so we can help to connect with more like-minded women across the globe. And, leave some words too! If you do, you may be featured as the review of the month on an upcoming episode.******************************************Meanwhile, if you'd like to book in a 15 min chat and see if EMDR is right for you and your business blocks, book a call here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/coaching-calendarAnd complete the free quiz to identify if you are actually emotionally ready for seven figures: https://eloisetomkins.com/quiz Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you've ever felt the discomfort of disappointing someone in your business, this is the episode for you. Join me as I chat about how we can learn to tolerate disappointing others, and how this actually leads us to the success we desire! ******************************************If you loved this episode, please give it a 5 star review so we can help to connect with more like-minded women across the globe. And, leave some words too! If you do, you may be featured as the review of the month on an upcoming episode.******************************************Meanwhile, if you'd like to book in a 15 min chat and see if coaching with me is right for you and your business blocks, book a call here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/coaching-calendarAnd complete the free quiz to identify if you are actually emotionally ready for seven figures: https://eloisetomkins.com/quiz Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The "window of tolerance" is a psychological concept often used to describe an individual’s capacity to manage and thrive amidst stress and challenge without becoming overly emotionally reactive or shutting down. For entrepreneurs, who often face high levels of uncertainty and pressure, understanding and expanding their window of tolerance can be important for our business success.Join me as I chat about this concept in more depth, and explain how we can reprogram our subconscious to create more space in our minds for our emotions!******************************************If you loved this episode, please give it a 5 star review so we can help to connect with more like-minded women across the globe. And, leave some words too! If you do, you may be featured as the review of the month on an upcoming episode.******************************************Meanwhile, if you'd like to book in a 15 min chat and see if EMDR is right for you and your business blocks, book a call here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/coaching-calendarAnd complete the free quiz to identify your subconscious money blocks: https://eloisetomkins.com/quiz Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On the surface, Phoebe Blamey looked like she had it all. A successful financial services business. An investment property. A great group of highly successful friends. But on the inside was a different story. She lacked confidence in herself, felt intimidated in rooms where she wasn't the most successful person there, and wondered whether she would ever truly find inner peace.Phoebe decided that she wanted to try EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) to remove those subconscious blocks. This is her story on what it was like to have her mind reprogrammed. And let me tell you, this is an episode you will not want to miss.If you'd like to learn more about Phoebe, check her out here:https://phoebeblamey.com.au/https://www.instagram.com/thehappymoneyjourney/******************************************If you loved this episode, please give it a 5 star review so we can help to connect with more like-minded women across the globe. And, leave some words too! If you do, you may be featured as the review of the month on an upcoming episode.******************************************Meanwhile, if you'd like to book in a 15 min chat and see if EMDR is right for you and your business blocks, book a call here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/coaching-calendarAnd complete the free quiz to identify if you are actually emotionally ready for seven figures: https://eloisetomkins.com/quiz Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For those of you who have been listening to this podcast from it's conception, you'll notice a big change today! Welcome to Rewired for Success. The podcast needed an overhaul because, as I dive into in this episode, it is important to build your business on the foundations of authenticity, vulnerability, resilience -- so you can trust your intuition and use your emotions as a guide. Listen to this episode to hear my decision making process on how I decided the podcast needed to change direction and how I hope you'll enjoy this new version even more than before. If you want to chat about coaching, book a chat with me here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/coaching-calendarOr you can take the free quiz to see if you are emotionally ready for seven figures in your business: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quiz Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You may have noticed a few changes! I've realised that the podcast needed to change direction - farewell Get Over Yourself and welcome to Rewired for Success. Sometimes, we make a decision that doesn't quite align. And you know what? It's not the end of the world. This is a reminder to you that perfectionism doesn't exist. Things can change. Evolve. And - it will be okay.So enjoy the revamped podcast - it brings me SO much excitement to bring this new and revised podcast to you each week. We'll diving into the subconscious mind and how reprogramming our neural pathways is the key to success. Keep an eye out for next weeks episode where we dive into my decision making behind the new direction where we're reminded that authenticity is key! Eloise xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever felt stuck in a cycle of burnout and exhaustion, despite achieving success in your career? On today's episode, we'll be exploring this topic with Mel Watson, who left the corporate world after experiencing burnout firsthand. Mel will delve into the societal pressures that lead to burnout, particularly for neurodiverse women, and share her own journey of self-discovery and overcoming self-imposed limitations.Join us as we chat about: - how burnout is common for ambitious women - the importance of finding allies who have your back - how to create a balanced life around your neurodiverse self - even when we make authentic decisions, it doesn't mean life is easy ******************************************To connect with Mel Watson, you can find out more about her here:Website and social links:https://melwatson.com/https://www.instagram.com/thezestcollective/******************************************If you loved this episode, please give it a 5 star review so we can help to connect with more like-minded women across the globe. And, leave some words too! If you do, you may be featured as the review of the month on an upcoming episode.******************************************Meanwhile. if you're itching to know whether you're ready for seven figures in your business, this quiz will help you find out what your CEO emotional mastery is like.Access the free quiz here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quizAnd, if you want to learn more about how to work with me 1:1 (these spots are limited), then you can access that info here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/emdr-intensive Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How often do you think about whether you subconsciously fear success? If you're like most people, it's probably not very often (or at all!). In this episode, we chat about how sometimes our subconscious can unintentionally sabotage our desired goals. If we are fearful of anticipatory emotions, then we try to avoid those - subconsciously blocking the thing we say we want! Ready to unpack this further and reprogram your own subconscious blocks for good? Book a call and let's have a chat about which coaching program may be right for you. https://www.eloisetomkins.com/coaching-calendar Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever noticed you hold yourself back each time you reach a new level of success? In this episode, join me as I chat with Angela Williams, a therapist and coach for high-performing leaders. We explore why we get stuck in our past, and how the transformative power of EMDR coaching can extends beyond trauma to help highly ambitious professionals and entrepreneurs process life’s challenges and foster growth. Angela will share her own personal experiences, including how EMDR gave her confidence in public speaking and how it serves as a tool in personal and business growth.We explore:- Growing up amidst diversity and economic struggle- The importance of inner work and support in achieving growth- The transformative effects of EMDR on deep-rooted emotional blocksYou can find more about Angela here:https://www.angelamarie.co/https://www.linkedin.com/in/theangelamariewilliams/https://www.instagram.com/theangelamariewilliams/And, the EMDR Uncovered episode, on Angela's Bigger Braver Life podcast can be found here:https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/emdr-uncovered-insights-from-therapists-and-coaches/id1611974562?i=1000622444870******************************************If you loved this episode, please give it a 5 star review so we can help to connect with more like-minded women across the globe. And, leave some words too! If you do, you may be featured as the review of the month on an upcoming episode.******************************************Meanwhile. if you're itching to know whether you're ready for seven figures in your business, this quiz will help you find out what your CEO emotional mastery is like.Access the free quiz here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quizAnd, if you want to learn more about how to work with me 1:1 (these spots are limited), then you can access that info here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/emdr-intensive Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We've all been there, right? Caring way too much about what someone else thinks of us? We all want to feel like we belong in the world - this forms part of our survival needs. But also, our past influences our present. Yeah, of course I go there. Get your notebook ready as there are some reflective questions in here that are going to get you thinking. Meanwhile. if you're itching to know whether you're ready for seven figures in your business, this quiz will help you find out what your CEO emotional mastery is like.Access the free quiz here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quizAnd, if you want to learn more about how to work with me 1:1 (these spots are limited), then you can access that info here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/emdr-intensiveSee y'all next week! Elly xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you ever feel guilty for being an ambitious female? This episode will inspire you to let go of the guilt and own your ambitions. We are joined by Editor in Chief of Women's Agenda, Tarla Lambert, who had an idyllic childhood in many respects. While Tarla acknowledges she grew up very loved and supported, she has not been immune to imposter syndrome and her own inner critic.In this episode, we chat about:- making a positive impact on the world through the power of using our voice- how imposter syndrome sneaks up on us even when we haven't come from a life of adversity- owning our ambition and the importance of persevering even if we don't always get what we wish for the first time aroundCheck out Women's Agendahttps://womensagenda.com.au/Connect with Tarla on Linked In;https://www.linkedin.com/in/tarlalambertadvertisinghttps://womensagenda.com.au/author/tlambert/******************************************If you loved this episode, please give it a 5 star review so we can help to connect with more like-minded women across the globe. And, leave some words too! If you do, you may be featured as the review of the month on an upcoming episode.******************************************Meanwhile. if you're itching to know whether you're ready for seven figures in your business, this quiz will help you find out what your CEO emotional mastery is like.Access the free quiz here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quizAnd, if you want to learn more about how to work with me 1:1 (these spots are limited), then you can access that info here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/emdr-intensive Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever gotten stuck making a decision in your business? Found yourself overthinking and worrying about all of the worst case scenarios that could go wrong? I get it! This is one of the most common concerns that business owners bring to coaching sessions - but it doesn't have to be this way! Let's dive in and have a chat about why this occurs and how to prevent it from happening.******************************************If you loved this episode, please give it a 5 star review so we can help to connect with more like-minded women across the globe. And, leave some words too! If you do, you may be featured as the review of the month on an upcoming episode.******************************************Meanwhile. if you're itching to know whether you're ready for seven figures in your business, this quiz will help you find out what your CEO emotional mastery is like.Access the free quiz here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quizAnd, if you want to learn more about how to work with me 1:1 (these spots are limited), then you can access that info here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/emdr-intensive Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Did you ever feel like your gender held you back as a child? While it didn't hold Danielle Dobson back from kicking footy around with all the boys in her family, she certainly noticed that girls were treated very differently. As an adult, soon after having her first child, she quickly realised that her value in the world was based on her child rearing capabilities rather than who she was as an individual. With her curious mind, this led Danielle to explore the impacts of gender.In this episode, Danielle and I chat about:- How growing up in an environment of men can contribute to our own sense of self- Why having the right support network around you helps to own your authenticity- The importance of quitting living life on of autopilot- How to consciously break free from the gender codes we’ve knownIf you are ready to start unlearning all of the rules society has taught you to live by as a woman, then this episode is for you.******************************************To connect with Danielle Dobson, you can find out more about her here:Website and social links:https://www.codeconversations.com.au/https://au.linkedin.com/in/danielledobsondnaShe has also offered an exclusive discount for her inspiring book, Breaking the Gender Code for listeners of the podcast.Link to purchase the book: https://www.codeconversations.com.au/breaking-the-gender-code/The coupon code is: GOY2024******************************************If you loved this episode, please give it a 5 star review so we can help to connect with more like-minded women across the globe. And, leave some words too! If you do, you may be featured as the review of the month on an upcoming episode.******************************************Remember to join our growing network of like-minded women ready to support each other on their journey to authenticity: https://www.facebook.com/groups/goywitheloiseLearn more about your host, Eloise Tomkins, at www.eloisetomkins.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This is a quick little episode for you as I just got back from Bali and it was SO good for the soul. This episode aims to remind you to disconnect from your business when you do go on holidays so that you can actually enjoy it! Too often, we go on holidays and remain switched onto work -- checking emails, trying to complete admin tasks, and sneak little bits and pieces into our trip... which actually makes us less productive in the long run. By actually taking a break, we become more effective leaders. ******************************************If you loved this episode, please give it a 5 star review so we can help to connect with more like-minded women across the globe. And, leave some words too! If you do, you may be featured as the review of the month on an upcoming episode.******************************************Remember to join our growing network of like-minded women ready to support each other on their journey to authenticity: https://www.facebook.com/groups/goywitheloiseLearn more about your host, Eloise Tomkins, at www.eloisetomkins.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Imagine waking up one morning and realizing that the job title that's defined your identity for years is no longer what you want. That's what happened to Jessica Osborn, who left her high-powered marketing job to pursue her dreams of living a more flexible and fulfilling life.In this episode, Jessica shares her journey from corporate marketing executive to dreamer turned doer. She talks about the challenges she faced, the lessons she learned, and the advice she has for other women who are thinking about leaving the corporate world to pursue their dreams.Whether you're feeling stuck in your job or you're simply curious about what it would be like to live a more unconventional life, this episode is for you.Join us as we chat with Jessica about:- How to break free from the societal expectations that hold us back- How to have it all (the myth that women can't have a career and a fulfilling personal life is just that - a myth)- How to overcome the fear of not being accepted- The positive benefits of choosing happiness over other people's expectationsIf you're ready to start living your best life, then this episode is for you. Tune in today and get inspired by Jessica's story!******************************************To connect with Jessica Osborn, you can find out more about her here:Website: https://www.jessicaosborn.comShe’s The Business Podcast: https://www.jessicaosborn.com/podcastBusiness JAM program https://www.jessicaosborn.com/businessjamSocial media links:https://facebook.com/jessicaosborn.bxcoachhttps://instagram.com/jessica.osborn/https://linkedin.com/in/jessicaaosborn/https://www.tiktok.com/@jessicaosborn.bxcoach@jessica.osborn@threads.net******************************************If you loved this episode, please give it a 5 star review so we can help to connect with more like-minded women across the globe. And, leave some words too! If you do, you may be featured as the review of the month on an upcoming episode.******************************************Meanwhile. if you're itching to know whether you're ready for seven figures in your business, this quiz will help you find out what your CEO emotional mastery is like.Access the free quiz here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quizAnd, if you want to learn more about how to work with me 1:1 (these spots are limited), then you can access that info here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/emdr-intensive Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you struggling with procrastination in your business and life? In this episode, join me as I chat about how knowing that we procrastinate isn't enough to change it. This episode breaks down the subconscious blocks that may get in your way, the importance of raising awareness of them, and mastering our emotions to break the pesky procrastination cycle.******************************************If you loved this episode, please give it a 5 star review so we can help to connect with more like-minded women across the globe. And, leave some words too! If you do, you may be featured as the review of the month on an upcoming episode.******************************************Meanwhile. if you're itching to know whether you're ready for seven figures in your business, this quiz will help you find out what your CEO emotional mastery is like.Access the free quiz here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quizAnd, if you want to learn more about how to work with me 1:1 (these spots are limited), then you can access that info here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/emdr-intensive Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.